I've always been the guy who wanted the "hottest girl in the room."  Having a "trophy girlfriend" aligned with my Leo personality.  As the "king of the jungle," it was always important to have the girl that all the other guys wanted.

Unfortunately, when you have the girl that all the other guys want, you have to deal with the liabilities that come from being the center of attention.

Some of these liabilities include:

1.)  Dealing with the disrespectful words and actions of drunk guys hitting on your girl.

2.)  Dealing with the diva-like ego of your girlfriend (due to the constant attention from the opposite sex).

3.)  Dealing with your girlfriend's inability to resist the temptation to cheat — due to her addiction to attention.  This also creates tension between you and the guy(s) you suspect her of cheating with.  Body language never lies.

4.)  Dealing with your girlfriend's (or wife's) decision to hire someone to kill you (to maintain her selfish lifestyle at your expense).

Enter Dalia Dippolito. 

Dalia has been in the news lately, in regards to her decision to unknowingly hire an undercover cop to murder her husband.  Of course, Dalia denies her role in the murder plot.  Most PPD's would do the same thing.

Listen to the phone call (from jail) Dalia made to her husband — still trying to convince him that the video (and audio) surveillance was "not true."



Can a person be more delusional that that?

She even tries to make her husband feel guilty for "not wanting to help help her."  The poor guy is so blinded by love — that it almost seems like he wants to help her!

Dude!  She tried to have you murdered!

As I talk about in my new book, "Forgiveness and proximity are two different things."  Just because Michael Dippolito may decide to forgive his wife for trying to have him killed — it doesn't mean it's in his best interest to help her get back onto the streets.

It's one thing to be empathic and understand why a person might have a mental illness (selfishly delusional) that causes them to act in horrible ways; it's another thing to feed that mental illness by making them believe there are no consequences to their actions.

As Neale Donald Walsch says, in his book Conversations With God:  "For even the abuser is abused when his [or her] abuse is allowed to continue."

She's a threat to his safety; she's a threat to society.

I'm sure you've seen the undercover video.  If not just Google Dalia Dippolito or watch one of THESE videos.

You've never heard of the term PPD before?  Of course you haven't.  It's a term I invented.

PPD stands for Pathological Pennzoil Diva.

I created this term after dealing with the pathological tendencies of an ex-girlfriend.

Dictionary.com defines pathological as:  Of, relating to, or manifesting behavior that is habitual, maladaptive, and compulsive: a pathological liar.

Over the course of a few years, I dealt with countless episodes of pathological behavior — regarding deception.  After being caught red-handed (with indisputable evidence), the PPD would finally fess up, saying, "You were right.  I lied.  I was being selfish."  And that was just on the cases with undeniable proof.  She would always maintain her story (lie) until undeniable proof manifested.

There were countless other cases involving "suspicious activity" without undeniable proof.  History proved that she would maintain her story (lie) in those situations as well.

In most of these situations, I would choose to terminate the relationship.  After a period of a couple months, I would re-establish communication — with the hope that the PPD had "learned her lesson."  In every case, she always claimed that she had, and "this time would be different."

Over the course of a few years (on-again off-again), I had to face the cold, hard truth:  A person who is pathological about certain behavior patterns are likely to remain pathological — no matter how much damage they do to their lives (or the lives of others).  In her case, she was addicted to lying.  Even after countless episodes of her saying:  "I was wrong.  I know I have to stop doing this because it's destroying our relationship [and my life]," the PPD would fall back into the same pathological patterns.

Some of the deception affected my life in a major way.  I talk about this in my book, in Chapter 64 "The Adoption."

Most of my other relationships involved PPDs, as well.  I'm a PPD attraction expert.  In my new book, I discuss some of the other effects of choosing to associate with PPDs — in Chapter 32 "Man-Rape."

Seeing the deluded mindset of Dalia Dippolito inspired me to speak up on this issue.  I mean, here is a woman whose entire conversation is recorded on video — and she's such a PPD that she maintains her story.

I'm just concerned about the mental well-being (or lack thereof) of women who deserve the classification of PPDs.  They're used to using their beauty (or breasts) to get their way.  They become addicted to the pathological patterns that they implore to manipulate the world.

How did Michael and Dalia meet?  "She's actually an escort," said Michael, in an interview with police.  "That's how I met her. She came to my office one day. I called her and solicited her to the office and she came."

"After that one time," he said, "we started dating." 

I guess you get what you pay for. 

My experience has also shown that breast implants tend to increase the likelihood of mental illness.

Either the mental illness is present beforehand (and the breast implants are a means of trying to deal with those issues) or the mental illness shows up (or increases) after the breast augmentation is completed.  This is usually aligned with all the new attention that "new breasts" can warrant.  This instant gratification of new attention can be difficult to process.  Nice girls can easily become divas.

Have a look at THIS article, which highlights the correlation between breast augmentation, suicide, and mental illness.

Pathological Divas (like Dalia) tend to behave in sneaky ways.  That's why the term "Pennzoil" is included.  Pennzoil = Slick.  Slick like oil.

Of course, most PPDs will dispute their classification as a Pathological Pennzoil Diva — but that's to be expected.  That's exactly what a pathological liar would do.  Just continue to deny, deny, deny.  Reinforce the lie.  Protect yourself (and your own selfish interests) no matter the cost.

This article is being written to help you notice the warning signs.  If you (or someone you love) are under the influence of a PPD — get out before it's too late.

PPDs are very good at manipulation.  They've mastered the art of appearing to be the "good girl."  However, once their masks of deception are peeled off — they're anything but good.  They're selfish to the core.

Remember:  Pathological Pennzoil Divas are very cunning.  Notice the signs.

If you believe you or a loved one is being manipulated by a PPD, contact the PPD-PD immediately.  With my extensive background in dating (and researching) PPDs of all manipulator personality types, I've been chosen to lead the PPD-PD (Pathological Pennzoil Diva Police Department).

Please contact me if you have any questions regarding your situation.  I'm here to help.

Most PPDs also suffer from a term I call "Supermodel Syn(Sin)drome."  To learn more about that, click HERE.